"Your mind acts as a prediction engine, rewiring neural pathways and regulating your physiological health based on your dominant thoughts and mindsets" (national library of medicine).
We all were tiny at one point. Throughout childhood, we acquired skills, learned how to relate to other people, and had our beautiful and not-so-beautiful experiences in our relations. It is very individual how we reacted to particular incidents. But one thing to take in is that whatever felt not okay, was crossing boundaries, or making you upset...